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Man greeting Man - Men usually greet one another using the phrase ‘Salaamu Aleikum’ (it means peace be upon you). The appropriate response is Wa'aleikum as-salamma, which means and on peace be you. This is accompanied by a warm handshake (always use the right hand). Handshakes usually linger a bit. One might also see the men kiss the other person‘s cheek and offer a hug.
Woman greeting Woman - Women greet each other in a similar manner to men. During initial meetings, a verbal greeting is also acceptable for many people. One might also see the women kiss the other person‘s cheek and offer a hug.
Man greeting Woman - Social interactions between non-related members of the opposite sex are not frequent, so as a result the handshake will usually not be included in the introduction. You will be able to tell if the person you are being introduced to is leery of a handshake as they will fold their hand up and across their chest to let you know they do not intend to shake hands. Always wait for the woman to initiate, if at all.
NOTE: Failing to greet someone you meet is considered very unkind and rude. If you find yourself entering a room full of strangers, it would be very rude not to give a general greeting. Assalamu alikum (peace be upon you) is a common greeting, to which the appropriate response is Wa Alikum Assalam (and peace be upon you as well). Other common phrases include Kayf halak? (How are you?) with an answer being Al-hamdu lilah, bahi (Praise to God, very well).
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