For men greeting men – A handshake with the right hand is the most common form of greeting. A firm traditional African handshake is used most often. The traditional African handshake consists of three parts: in the first part, you clasp someone’s hand as you would in the west; the second part, both individuals lock thumbs while still clasping hands, so your thumb is pointed upwards; and the handshake finishes by going back to the traditional Western shake.
For women greeting women - Women usually just greet one another with words only. If you are greeting a woman of seniority (i.e. an elder, a person holding a position of power, etc.), a handshake with the right hand is the most common form of greeting. Often, to show respect, one or the other greeter will make a quick curtsy while shaking hands. This is a tradition that many young girls are raised with and carry throughout their lives.
For meetings between men and women – While a handshake with the right hand is the most common form of greeting, some women may just give a nod of acknowledgment or greet with words only. As more and more women become liberated in , you will find women shaking hands with men more often. Though the traditional African handshake is not as common between men and women, you will see it. And again, many girls may curtsy when shaking hands with a man, especially an elder or dignitary.
Notes on greetings: Along with a curtsy, another traditional show of respect is for the greeter to shake with his or her right hand while at the same time touching their right elbow with their left hand. The curtsy and the elbow touch performed together are very common in the northern regions, especially the rural areas.
It is considered common courtesy to greet people in . When walking down the road, you should greet passers-by by saying hello and asking how they are, either in English or in the local language. It is considered disrespectful to not greet people.
When entering a room for a meeting, you should greet everyone with a handshake if possible, before sitting down.
When asking someone in a public establishment for help (i.e. directions, prices, etc.), always greet first and ask how they are before proceeding to business.
Often after shaking someone’s hand, Namibians will continue to hold on to each other’s hand while conversing, especially if the two people are friends with one another.
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